Life comes with all sort of complexities, and demands, which the person has to resolve in order to be SOMEONE. Only when he or she wants to, it can not be forced from the second party. It depends only on the person what they want from life, whether its short term goals or the long ones.

Hard times comes in everyone’s life, but the way we deal with it defines our PERSONALITY, and set future course of our life pattern. Direct your life in a positive direction in order to lead a happy life. People who are giving in to situations and matters, that are difficult for them to handle, will always have an unhappy with their life, as they will never be contended. 

“Giving up”  things means that you are not prepared to deal with it, and opting out is considered as an easy way out, from that situation. Here I am not focusing on arguments, in which we engage every now and then. I am shedding a light on personality and related behavior pattern.

Giving up means you are with drawing yourself on basis of some possibilities. Giving up means you have no resilience, and you will always search for easy ways to get out of it. But how come you know that you are going to fail, until and unless you try it out. And even if you do fail, you have at least as sense of satisfaction, that you did your best, and you learn a lesson in doing it so. Be it a relationship that you value most, exam which you are attempting again, going through a rough patch in life, facing hurdles in job market etc.

Motivation, persistence, and believing that you are doing your best to make things work is the key to achieving your goals. Stand up to the challenges, to adversity, and don’t look for back doors. You will be harming yourself and others around you.

Giving in means you are not ready mentally and physically to take the pressure, and you end up making everyone else in-charge of your life. Accepting things and following decision or choices which are forced your way. You don’t have the courage to speak up, due to the pressure on you. But remember here that its you, who made other people in-charge of your life. By your submissive personality you are allowing others to direct your life in a direction where you don’t want to go. If you do that, you will be unhappy the rest of your life, brooding and have no sense of accomplishment.


Give your best in everything you do, the relationships you engage in, the career you choose for yourself, etc. If you don’t try, you will never know, what the end result is. Facing failure doesn’t means that you are not good enough, rather it defines, that you are strong enough to see it to the very end, and still stay strong for improving it.

Take breaks, to revive your energy, to think over things, to relax and let go of negativity, and focusing things and thinking out possible actions to take. By having a break your mind will be fresh, and you will feel motivated, have positive thoughts, and make your self believe that you can do it, provided you give it a best shot with dedication.

So, why not give your best to things and do your best, by defining your life, the way you want to, in order to be satisfied and contended with sense of achievement. 


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