A CUP OF OPTIMISM

In our daily life we go through lots of experiences and some of us might learn few lessons from them too. Some of our experiences forces us into thinking negatively and we forget to see the other side of the fence. Thinking positively is just not laid in front of us, REMEMBER THAT!
We have to train our mind to be optimistic and be positive, look at the brighter side of the picture.

The great example is of the glass filled with water.

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How we view it is up to us completely. Seeing a glass half full, portrays a positive mind set. It depicts good and sound health. Such people have a better vision for the future as they are motivate to achieve more rather than thinking negatively which on  the other hand demotivates them and they ultimately perform low. 

People close to me notice the positivity in me, that I don’t feel low. Well YES! I don’t. It doesn’t mean that there is nothing wrong that happens or all is perfect (which we all know that nothing can be perfect). I simply keep on filling myself with a dose of optimism which keeps the pessimism away. And apart from it all, I try to fix the things that went wrong, or try to keep myself away from people who are cry babies or have a tendency to be negative all the time. 

Don’t blame yourself for things that went wrong because of someone else’s decision. That was on the first place out of your control. There is always something better coming your way even in the gloomiest of situations. Remember you alone are responsible for your happiness and you alone can make yourself happy. ALL STARTS FROM YOU. Optimistic person will find a silver lining in the cloud even in the darkest moment while a pessimist will cry even on a happy day.

  • think positively.
  • have an action plan.
  • be in company of positive people.
  • be active.
  • let go of things that you can’t control.

THINK DIFFERENTLY. 

  • “If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.”

    —Milton Berle.

    • “A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”

      —Sir Winston Churchill.

    • “Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine.”

      —Anthony J. D’Angelo.

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TIME FOR YOURSELF

There are times when we are too busy, even to look around us or give to ourselves. Well we do have a motive behind it. It might be due to the reason of our work, responsibilities or situations or life happenings that we forget to think about ourselves. We leave and we move away from our own being, never finding time to look into the inner self, which is long forgotten.

Stop and introspect, and think what you have been missing. Learn to value yourself, see what motivates you, what you love doing, what makes you happy, keeps you contended and relaxed.

Time keeps on going and is never stopping. But among all the life happenings, stop and think about yourself, it will help you many things that you are probably neglecting, like, your health. When we introspect and look for reasons, we do find answers and in them find solutions for the problems we are facing. We learn new ways of problem solving, and in the process somewhere find our comfort zones, our real self which is long forgotten.

So, take time out for yourself, take yourself on a date and find yourself, it will make things easier for you.

  THE LESSONS OF LIFE

As we age, we all as human beings, learn things through our own experiences, and shared experiences. As we know that no one is perfect, and we make mistakes, only to learn from them, and try not to commit the same mistake again. No one can say that, they didn’t make mistake in their life, it is just part of growing up, getting more mature and experienced.

As we grow up we become aware that, our actions have consequences for which we are accountable to ourselves. We become a little wiser, and start analyzing life and its happening more alertly, become more conscious of our decision making process. We try to chose things that are in accordance to our nature, and we tend to take risks too, knowing how much we can push ourselves, or how strong we are to face adversity.

Each mistake that we make, give us a new lesson, a new way of thinking and approaching ideas, and decisions in our life. We keep on struggling to find a path to our destiny, by trial and error process, approaching ideas and ways each time in a different manner, one that suits our need and fulfills our desire. Learning motivates us to be more resilient, inculcates a deeper understanding of the life we are living.

All of you must be knowing this saying:

“TIME TEACHES ALL”.

Stop for a moment and relax, breath in and out with ease, and take your time in doing so. Now think what you learned in life, all the time that you spent, going to school, college, having relationships  friends, your work.

  • What you really learned?
  • Have you been able to rectify your mistakes?
  • Have you really learned anything that set the future course of your life?
  • What you changed by your experiences?
  • Or, all the learning that you did had gone waste?

Start your learning, and exploring yourself:

  • Everyone is leading his/her own life, so why not you stop worrying about others and start living yourself , for a start.
  • Know that whatever you choose for yourself, gives a much more higher satisfaction, as compared to, what others chose for you.
  • Start treating life as a friendly journey, where you indulge and play, and learn what has to offer you.
  • Never let go of the lesson an experience taught you, it is so much valuable for you, as you do not want to go through it again.
  • Learn to treat the life, the way you want to be treated. Whatever goes along comes along.
  • Life is too precious to waste, so learn to live inn the full manner and let others live to.
  • Give a chance to yourself to LIVE, by FORGIVING, it is the greatest thing that you can do for yourself. 
  • Keep on struggling on road to success, as nothing goes to waste. You will succeed sooner or later.
  • Decide whether you wan to be happy for the rest of your life or not, because it is your own attitude towards life, which will come to you.
  • Make peace with your past.
  • Stay true and loyal to yourself, don’t take help of cheating, to succeed, as you will fall if you do so.
  • Relationships are precious, give them, their time. You will know its worth, when it is not there.
  • Let go of things that are beyond repair, and cannot be changed, choose another path towards your goals.
  • Be thankful for whatever you have at present, don’t look back, nor forward.
  • Know one thing, that nothing can be achieved just by wishful thinking. You are supposed to take action in a positive manner, and set your horses on a favorable direction.
  • Be courageous, nothing will defeat you, not even your own fears.
  • Surround yourself with people who motivates you, keep you pushing and make you realize how special you are. Not the fake ones who are nothing and develop dependency in you.

 

“There are no such things as limits to growth, because there are no limits to the human capacity for intelligence, imagination, and wonder.” Ronald Reagan.