There are times when we are too busy, even to look around us or give to ourselves. Well we do have a motive behind it. It might be due to the reason of our work, responsibilities or situations or life happenings that we forget to think about ourselves. We leave and we move away from our own being, never finding time to look into the inner self, which is long forgotten.

Stop and introspect, and think what you have been missing. Learn to value yourself, see what motivates you, what you love doing, what makes you happy, keeps you contended and relaxed.

Time keeps on going and is never stopping. But among all the life happenings, stop and think about yourself, it will help you many things that you are probably neglecting, like, your health. When we introspect and look for reasons, we do find answers and in them find solutions for the problems we are facing. We learn new ways of problem solving, and in the process somewhere find our comfort zones, our real self which is long forgotten.

So, take time out for yourself, take yourself on a date and find yourself, it will make things easier for you.


Life is just not about indulging in and losing yourself in daily activities, work or responsibilities. If that happens you will be so tuck up in it that, a time comes you really do wonder, what you were you thinking? what led you to do this to yourself? and you are left miserable.


Try to figure out who you really are, what is your purpose your goal in life, what things you love doing, what motivates you, mobilizes you, what are the things that make you bounce.

You will find yourself once you go through the closet of thinking of who you really are. you will see how that changes your life forever. 

The same rut of life will bore you out one day, and you will be a mechanical piece going through different doors. In order to accomplish your dreams it is a necessary thing to get to know yourself , your aspirations and following your dream. You will come to now latter on what you have being missing all the while.


When you take on the journey to find yourself you will be analyzing yourself too, what you are, what roles you are playing in life, what things matters to you most, what makes you tick,  what are your eating habits, how you respond to fears, and accomplishments, what are your limits and which defense mechanisms you use. It will develop an insight in yourself, thus making you free from things that don’t matter much, that don’t lead you to your destiny. Leaving you more connected with your real self, you will find the center of everything within you. 

Take some time out for yourself, find a place that keeps you calm, where you can relax without interruptions or demands, and dive deep in yourself. Self discovery is  the perfect thing that you can do for yourself, it will enrich your life, making you plunge into positivity.   

“I can teach anybody how to get what they want out of life. The problem is that I can’t find anybody who can tell me what they want.” – Mark Twain.

“Resolve to be thyself; and know that he who finds himself, loses his misery.” – Matthew Arnold.

“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” – Aristotle.